Ngokwedatha, inani labantu abadala abaneminyaka engama-60 nangaphezulu kwilizwe lam limalunga nezigidi ezingama-297, kwaye inani labantu abadala abaneminyaka engama-65 nangaphezulu limalunga nezigidi ezingama-217. Phakathi kwabo, inani labantu abadala abakhubazekileyo okanye abakhubazekileyo lifikelela kwizigidi ezingama-44! Emva kweli nani likhulu kukho imfuneko engxamisekileyo yeenkonzo zokonga kunye nokhathalelo lwabantu abadala phakathi kwabantu abadala.
Kwanakwiindlu zabantu abadala kwizixeko eziphambili zaseTshayina, umlinganiselo wabasebenzi abangongikazi kubantu abadala umalunga ne-1:6, abasebenzi abangongikazi abaqhelekileyo kufuneka banyamekele abantu abadala abathandathu abangakwaziyo ukuzinyamekela, kukho ukunqongophala kwabasebenzi abangongikazi, kwaye bambalwa nabasebenzi abaqeqeshiweyo abaqeqeshiweyo. Ungaqinisekisa njani umgangatho wobongikazi?
Ukhathalelo lwabantu abadala lube yingxaki engxamisekileyo yoluntu ekufuneka isonjululwe. Kule meko yemarike apho ukubonelela kunye nemfuno kwimarike yokhathalelo lwabantu abadala kulungelelaniswa kakhulu, iimveliso zokhathalelo olukrelekrele ziya zithandwa kwaye zinokuba "yingca esindisa ubomi" kwishishini lokhathalelo.
Okwangoku, kukho iimveliso ezahlukeneyo zokhathalelo olukrelekrele ezithengiswayo, kodwa akukabikho mveliso ikrelekrele nesebenzayo. Ngenxa yoko, inkampani yetekhnoloji yaseShenzhen Zuowei yaphula imiqobo yobugcisa yaza yaqalisa irobhothi yokucoca ukungakwazi ukuzibamba, enokusombulula ingxaki yokuzithuma kwabantu abadala ngokucofa kube kanye.
Yinxibe nje njengebhulukhwe, kwaye umatshini ungavula imo ezenzekelayo ngokupheleleyo, uva ukungcola → ukufunxa umatshini → ukucoca amanzi afudumeleyo → ukomisa umoya ofudumeleyo. Yonke le nkqubo ayifuni ukubekwa esweni, kwaye umoya umtsha kwaye awunavumba.
Kwabo banyamekela abantu, unyango lwendabuko lwezandla lufuna ukuhlamba kaninzi ngosuku. Ngerobhothi yokucoca inkunkuma ekrelekrele, ibhakethi yenkunkuma kufuneka icocwe kube kanye ngemini. Ifowuni ephathwayo inokujonga ukuhamba kwamathumbu ngexesha langempela, kwaye ungalala ngoxolo kude kube sekuseni ebusuku, nto leyo enciphisa kakhulu ubunzima bomsebenzi wokonga kwaye isuse isidingo sokunyamezela ivumba elibi.
Kubantwana babo, akusekho mfuneko yokuba bathwale uxinzelelo olukhulu lwezemali ukuze baqeshe umgcini-bantwana, kwaye akusekho mfuneko yokuba bakhathazeke: umntu omnye ukhubazekile kwaye lonke usapho luyahlupheka. Abantwana banokuya emsebenzini ngokuqhelekileyo emini, kwaye abantu abadala banxiba iirobhothi ezikrelekrele zokonga ukuze bakhululeke baze bakhululeke ebhedini, ukuze bangakhathazeki malunga nokuphuma kwendle kwaye kungabikho mntu wokuyicoca. Akusekho mfuneko yokuba bakhathazeke ngezilonda zebhedi xa belele ixesha elide. Xa abantwana bebuya emsebenzini ngokuhlwa, banokuthetha nabantu abadala.
Kwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo, akukho mthwalo wengqondo kwingxaki yokukhupha isisu. Ngenxa yokulungiswa komatshini ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ukucoca nokomisa ngexesha elifanelekileyo, izilonda zokulala, kunye nezinye iingxaki zosulelo nazo zinokuphetshwa, nto leyo ephucula kakhulu umgangatho wobomi kwaye ikhokelele kubomi obunesidima ngakumbi. Ukhathalelo lwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo luyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokhathalelo lwabantu abadala kwaye yenye yezona ngxaki ziphambili zokuphila. Ukusombulula ingxaki yokhathalelo lwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo akuncedi nje kuphela ekuzinzeni kosapho kodwa nakwizinzo kuluntu. Xa uluntu lwethu lusakwazi ukusombulula ingxaki yokhathalelo lwabantu abadala, njengabantwana, into ekufuneka siyenze kukuzama konke okusemandleni ethu ukuvumela abazali bethu bonwabele ukwaluphala kwabo kwaye benze konke okusemandleni ethu ukubenza baphile ubomi obungcono.
Ixesha lokuthumela: Matshi-05-2024
