Njengoko iminyaka ikhula, amandla abantu abadala okuzinyamekela ayancipha ngenxa yokwaluphala, ubuthathaka, ukugula, nezinye izizathu. Okwangoku, uninzi lwabantu abanyamekela abantu abadala abalele ebhedini emakhaya ngabantwana namaqabane, kwaye ngenxa yokungabikho kwezakhono zobungcali zokonga, ababakhathaleli kakuhle.
Ngenxa yokuphuculwa okuqhubekayo kwemigangatho yokuphila yabantu, iimveliso zokonga zemveli azisakwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zokonga zeentsapho, izibhedlele, uluntu kunye namaziko.
Ingakumbi ekhaya, amalungu osapho anomnqweno oqinileyo wokunciphisa ubunzima bomsebenzi.
Kuthiwa akukho nyana ozala umntwana phambi kwebhedi ngenxa yokugula ixesha elide. Iingxaki ezininzi ezifana nokutshintsha kwemini nobusuku, ukudinwa kakhulu, inkululeko encinci, imiqobo yonxibelelwano, kunye nokudinwa kwengqondo ziye zafika, zishiya iintsapho ziziva zidiniwe kwaye zidiniwe.
Ukuphendula kwiindawo "zevumba elibi, kunzima ukulicoca, kulula ukulisulela, kunzima ukulikhathalela, kwaye kunzima ukulinyamekela" ekunyamekelweni kwemihla ngemihla kwabantu abadala abalele ebhedini, siyile irobhothi ekrelekrele yokunyanga abantu abadala abalele ebhedini.
Irobhothi ekrelekrele yokunyanga nokuthulula inceda abantu abakhubazekileyo ukuba bacoce ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthulula nokuthulula kwabo ngokusebenzisa imisebenzi emine ephambili: ukufunxa, ukucoca amanzi afudumeleyo, ukomisa umoya ofudumeleyo, kunye nokubulala iintsholongwane kunye nokususa ivumba elibi.
Ukusetyenziswa kweerobhothi ezikrelekrele zokuncancisa xa kuchonywa okanye kuthuthwa indle akupheleli nje ekukhululeni izandla zamalungu osapho, kodwa kukwabonelela ngobomi obukhululekileyo kubantu abadala abanengxaki yokuhambahamba, ngelixa kugcinwa ukuzihlonipha kwabantu abadala.
Iirobhothi ezikrelekrele zokonga zokuchama kunye nokuthulula azisasebenzi kwiibhedlele nakwiindawo zokhathalelo lwabantu abadala. Ziye zangena kancinci kancinci ekhayeni kwaye zadlala indima ebalulekileyo ekukhathaleleni abantu ekhaya.
Ayinciphisi nje kuphela umthwalo womzimba kubantu abanyamekela abantu, iphucula imigangatho yokunakekela abantu abadala, kodwa ikwaphucula nomgangatho wobomi babantu abadala kwaye isombulula uthotho lweengxaki zokunakekela abantu abadala.
Undikhulisa ndisemncinci, ndihamba nawe ndimdala. Njengoko abazali bakho bekhula kancinci kancinci, iirobhothi ezikrelekrele zokunyamekela umchamo kunye nokuthulula zinokukunceda ukuba ubakhathalele ngokulula, zibanike ubomi obufudumeleyo.
Ixesha lokuthumela: Meyi-11-2023
