Nokuba unamandla xa usemncinci, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kucinga ngento omawuyenze xa ulahlekelwa ngamandla okuzinyamekela xa sele umdala.
Kubantu abadala abakhubazekileyo, bachitha ixesha elininzi belele ebhedini kungekapheli nonyaka. Ngenxa yokuba amalungu osapho engenalo ixesha lokubanyamekela kwaye kungekho bantu banokubanyamekela, baba ngumthwalo kusapho. Kubantu abadala, yinto embi kakhulu kubo ukuba abakwazi ukuzinyamekela. Abakwazi ukuzinyamekela kakuhle, kwaye amalungu osapho lwabo kufuneka ayeke imisebenzi yawo ukuze abanakekele.
Kumalungu osapho, kufuneka basebenze baze banyamekele nabantwana babo, kwaye ngoku kufuneka banyamekele abazali babo. Nokuba bashiya imisebenzi yabo ukuze banyamekele abantu abadala abakhubazekileyo, okanye kufuneka bahlawule ixabiso eliphezulu ukuze bafumane umntu oza kubanyamekela.
Ukongeza, abanye abahlengikazi abanamava oqeqesho angako kwaye abanalo ulwazi olufanelekileyo kunye nobuchule obaneleyo, nto leyo eya kubangela ukuba bangakwazi ukwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukunyamekela abantu abadala ngexesha lomsebenzi, kwanokungawufezi umsebenzi wabo.
Ngoko ke, sidinga ngokukhawuleza indlela yokwenza abantwana bethu bazive bekhululekile kwaye sivumele abantu abadala abakhubazekileyo bafumane unyango olufanelekileyo.
Itekhnoloji yobukrelekrele bokwenziwa ikwixesha lophuhliso olukhawulezayo kwaye ikwavelise amashishini amaninzi asakhasayo. "Ukhathalelo lwabantu abadala olukrelekrele" luvele njengoko amaxesha efuneka ukubonelela ngeenkonzo zokhathalelo lwabantu abadala ezikrelekrele nezisempilweni.
Ukusebenzisa iteknoloji ukunceda ukhathalelo lwabantu abadala kuthetha ukusebenzisa ngokupheleleyo iindlela zesayensi nezobuchwepheshe ukuphuhlisa iinkonzo ezintsha zokhathalelo lwabantu abadala. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, ukusuka kwiimveliso ezintsha ezifana nokubeka esweni impilo kunye nokubeka esweni ukhathalelo lwabantu abadala, ukuya kwiinkonzo ezintsha ezifana nolawulo olupheleleyo lwezifo ezingapheliyo, kunye nokuhlanganiswa kokhathalelo lwabantu abadala olukrelekrele, ukhathalelo lwabantu abadala olukrelekrele luphuhliswa ngokukhawuleza. Ngokukodwa, izixhobo ezinxitywayo ezifana nokubona ukuwa, iintambo zoncedo lokuqala, ukubeka esweni iimpawu ezibalulekileyo, kunye neerobhothi zokonga zihlala zamkelekile kubathengi abadala.
Ukuba kukho abantu abadala abangakwaziyo ukuzibamba ebhedini nabakhubazekileyo ekhaya, irobhothi yokucoca abantu abangakwaziyo ukuzibamba ekrelekrele lukhetho olufanelekileyo, olunokusombulula ingxaki yokungakwazi ukuzibamba. Irobhothi yokucoca abantu abangakwaziyo ukuzibamba ekrelekrele ayincedi nje kuphela abongikazi ukuba babelane ngoxinzelelo lokonga, kodwa ikwanceda noxinzelelo lwengqondo "lokungaphantsi nokungakwazi" kwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo, ukuze bonke abantu abadala abakhubazekileyo abangakwaziyo ukuzibamba ebhedini bafumane isidima kunye nenkuthazo ebomini.
Xa abantu abadala bejongene, ukongeza ekuqinisekiseni imiba yokhathalelo olusisiseko, amalungu osapho kufuneka abonise inkathalo nobubele obungakumbi, ahambe nabantu abadala ngesimo sengqondo sokunyamezelana, anikele ingqalelo engakumbi kwiintliziyo zabantu abadala, aze athintele usapho ukuba lungangeni kwingxaki yokuba "umntu omnye ukhubazekile, kwaye usapho alulingani".
Ixesha lokuthumela: Septemba-12-2023
