Bangaphezu kwezigidi ezingama-44! Eli linani elikhoyo ngoku labantu abadala abakhubazekileyo nabakhubazekileyo kwilizwe lam, kwaye eli nani lisakhula.Kunzima kubantu abadala abakhubazekileyo nabakhubazekileyo ukuba bahlale bodwa, kwaye iintsapho zabo ziyabaleka ukuba zibanyamekele, kwaye umthwalo wemali uyanda..."Umntu omnye unesiphene, kwaye intsapho yonke ayilungelelananga" yingxaki ejongene neentsapho ezininzi.
Ngaba wakha wosula umgangatho kathathu ngemini, uhlamba iimpahla, kwaye uvule iifestile ukuze kungene umoya, kodwa nangona kunjalo, kusekho ukugqabhuka kwevumba elibi emoyeni?
Kwaye uLiu Xinyang kudala equmbile kuyo yonke le nto. Sele kuyiminyaka emibini umama wakhe elele ebhedini ngenxa yokugula, ukungakwazi ukuzibamba, kunye nesifo sengqondo esiyingozi kunyaka ophelileyo. Oomongikazi bexabiso eliphezulu baphuma belandelana kuba bengakwazi ukuyamkela inkani yonina ngamaxesha athile. Ngenxa yokuba utata wayenyamekela unina imini nobusuku, izimvi zakhe zakhula ngokukhawuleza njengamakhowa emva kwemvula, ngokungathi uneminyaka eliqela ubudala.
Umama ufuna umntu oza kumkhapha iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku ukuze anyamekele umchamo nendlu yakhe yangasese. U-Liu Xinyang kunye noyise basemsebenzini, kodwa bobabini abakhange bahlangane okanye baphume ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezingama-600, singasathethi ke ngazo naziphi na izinto zokuzonwabisa kunye nezolonwabo. Umntu ongakhange ahlalisane ixesha elide uya kuziva edandathekile, singasathethi ke ngokunyamekela umntu osekhulile olele ebhedini, okhubazekileyo nongakwaziyo ukuzibamba.
Ukhathalelo lwexesha elide lwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo aluyi kubeka nje uxinzelelo olukhulu ngokwasengqondweni kumalungu entsapho, kodwa luya kuzisa iingxaki ezinkulu kubomi bentsapho.
Enyanisweni, ukunyamekela abakhulileyo abaneziphene kunzima ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga, yaye akwenzeki ngokukhawuleza. Eli lidabi elinzima nelihlala ixesha elide!
Enyanisweni, ukunyamekela abakhulileyo abaneziphene kunzima ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga, yaye akwenzeki ngokukhawuleza. Eli lidabi elinzima nelihlala ixesha elide!
Kubantu abasele bekhulile, ukutya, ukusela, nokusula imizimba yabo akuyongxaki, kodwa ukhathalelo lwendlu yangasese lusenokubakhathaza abongikazi abaninzi namalungu entsapho.
Irobhothi yokhathalelo lwendlu yangasese ilugqibezela ngokuzenzekelayo unyango lwendlu yangasese ngokufunxa, ukuhlamba amanzi ashushu, ukomisa umoya oshushu, ukubulala iintsholongwane kunye nokuvala inzala. Ayinakuqokelela kuphela ukungcola, kodwa iphinde ihlambuluke ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye yome. Yonke le nkqubo ikrelekrele kwaye izenzekela ngokupheleleyo. Abasebenzi abongikazi okanye amalungu osapho Akukho mfuneko yokubamba ukungcola!
Irobhothi elumkileyo yokhathalelo lokuzikhulula isombulula ezona “zintloni” iingxaki zokhathalelo lokuzithuma kubo, kwaye izisa abantu abadala ubomi obunesidima nobukhululekileyo kwiminyaka yabo yamva. Ikwangu "mncedi olungileyo" wokwenyani kwiintsapho zabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jul-17-2023