Ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezingama-44! Eli linani langoku labantu abadala abakhubazekileyo nabakhubazekileyo kwilizwe lam, kwaye eli nani lisakhula. Kunzima kubantu abadala abakhubazekileyo nabakhubazekileyo ukuhlala bodwa, kwaye iintsapho zabo ziyabaleka ukuze zibanyamekele, kwaye umthwalo wemali uyanda..."Umntu omnye ukhubazekile, kwaye lonke usapho alulungelelananga" yingxaki ejongene neentsapho ezininzi.
Ngaba wakha wasula umgangatho kathathu ngemini, wahlamba impahla, wavula neefestile ukuze kungene umoya, kodwa nangona kunjalo, kusekho ivumba elibi emoyeni?
Kwaye uLiu Xinyang ebesoloko engakwazi konke oku. Sele kudlule iminyaka emibini umama wakhe elele ebhedini ngenxa yokugula, ukungakwazi ukuzibamba, kunye ne-dementia kunyaka ophelileyo. Abahlengikazi ababiza kakhulu bashiya omnye emva komnye kuba babengenakukwazi ukwamkela umsindo wobukrakra kamama ngamanye amaxesha. Ngenxa yokuba utata wayemnyamekela umama wakhe imini nobusuku, iinwele zakhe ezingwevu zakhula ngokukhawuleza njengeekhowa emva kwemvula, ngokungathi wayeneminyaka eliqela ubudala.
Umama udinga umntu oza kuhamba naye iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku ukuze anyamekele umchamo wakhe kunye nendlu yangasese. ULiu Xinyang noyise basemsebenzini, kodwa bobabini abazange badibane okanye baphume iintsuku ezingaphezu kwama-600, ingasathethwa ke ngayo nayiphi na imisebenzi yokuzonwabisa. Umntu ongazange adibane ixesha elide uya kuziva edandathekile, ingasathethwa ke ngokunyamekela umntu omdala olele ebhedini, okhubazekileyo nongakwaziyo ukuzibamba.
Ukhathalelo oluhlala ixesha elide lwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo aluyi kubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu lwengqondo kumalungu osapho kuphela, kodwa luza kuzisa neengxaki ezinkulu kubomi bosapho.
Enyanisweni, ukunyamekela abantu abadala abakhubazekileyo kunzima kakhulu kunokuba ucinga, kwaye akwenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Eli lidabi elinzima nelihlala ixesha elide!
Enyanisweni, ukunyamekela abantu abadala abakhubazekileyo kunzima kakhulu kunokuba ucinga, kwaye akwenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Eli lidabi elinzima nelihlala ixesha elide!
Kwabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo, ukutya, ukusela, nokusula imizimba yabo akuyongxaki, kodwa ukhathalelo lwendlu yangasese lunokubakhathaza abahlengikazi abaninzi kunye namalungu osapho.
Irobhothi yokunyamekela indlu yangasese ekrelekrele igqibezela ngokuzenzekelayo unyango lwendlu yangasese ngokufunxa, ukuhlamba ngamanzi afudumeleyo, ukomisa umoya ofudumeleyo, ukubulala iintsholongwane kunye nokubulala iintsholongwane. Ayikwazi ukuqokelela ukungcola kuphela, kodwa ikwacoca kwaye yomise ngokuzenzekelayo. Yonke le nkqubo ikrelekrele kwaye izenzekela ngokupheleleyo. Abasebenzi bobuhlengikazi okanye amalungu osapho Akukho mfuneko yokuchukumisa ukungcola!
Irobhothi yokhathalelo lokuthulula indle ekrelekrele isombulula iingxaki zokhathalelo lokuthulula indle ezibabangela iintloni, kwaye izisa ubomi obuhloniphekileyo nobukhululekileyo kubantu abadala. Ikwangumncedisi olungileyo kwiintsapho zabantu abadala abakhubazekileyo.
Ixesha leposi: Julayi-17-2023
